Jeremy Tomlinson  M.Ed., R.M.F.T., R.S.W., EMDRIA Certified

Individual, Couple and Family Therapy, Sex Therapy, EMDR

Reading Lists: Sexuality


Joy of Sexual Fantasy: Understanding and Enriching your Fantasy Life, Dr. Andrew Stanway, 1991


Illustrated Guide to Extended Massive Orgasm, Steve Bodansky and Vera Bodansky, 2002

The Multi-Orgasmic Man, Mantale Chia, 1987

Becoming Orgasmic: A sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women,
Julia Heiman and Joseph Lopiccolo, 1987

How to.

Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men and Women, 3rd edition, Jack Morin, Ph.D., 1998

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give him Mind-blowing Pleasure,
Violet Blue, 2002

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give her Exquisite Pleasure,
Violet Blue, 2002

How to Give her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques every woman wants her man to know,
Lou Paget, 2000

General Sexuality

Woman's Experience of Sex: The Facts and Feelings of Female Sexuality at every stage of life,
Sheila Kitzinger, 1985

Private Parts: An Owner's Guide to the Male Anatomy, 3rd Edition, Dr. Yosh Taguchi, 2005

Re-investing in your Sexual Partner

Lube Jobs: High Performance Quickies to Jump Start a Stalled Sex Life, Don Macleod and Debra Macleod, 2007

The Great Sex Weekend, Pepper Schwartz and Janet Lever, 2000

Sexuality for Survivors of Childhood Sexualized Abuse

The Sexual Healing Journey, Wendy Maltz, (2012) 3rd Edition

The Survivor's Guide to Sex: How to have an Empowered Sex Life After Childhood Sexual Abuse,
Staci Haines, 1997

Non-Monogamy/Open Relationships

The Ethical Slut, Dossie Easten and Catherine Liszt, 2003

Polyamory: The New Love without Limits, Deborah M. Anapol, 1997

Lesbian Sexuality

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us, Felice Newman, 2004

Tantric Sex for Women, Christa Schulte, 2005

Gay Men's Sexuality

Men Loving Men, Mitch Walker, 1997

Joy of Gay Sex Dr. Charles Silverstein and Felice Picano, 2006

Sex Tips for Gay Guys, Dan Anderson, 2001 (irreverent approach to sexuality for gay guys)

Tantra for Gay Men (book also known as Gay Tantra), Bruce Anderson, 2002