Jeremy Tomlinson  M.Ed., R.M.F.T., R.S.W., EMDRIA Certified

Individual, Couple and Family Therapy, Sex Therapy, EMDR

Reading Lists:
Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Issues


No Place Like Home: Relationships and Family Life Among Lesbians and Gay Men, Christopher Carrington, 1999

Lesbian Couples: A Guide to Creating Healthy Relationships, D. Merilee Clunis and G. Dorsey Green, 2000

My Guy: A Gay Man's Guide to a Lasting Relationship, Martin Kantor, 2002

Personal Development

Finding the Boyfriend Within, Brad Gooch, 2002

Transgender and Transsexual Issues

True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism — For Families, Friends, Coworkers and Helping Professionals, Mildred L. Brown and Chloe Ann Rounsley, 1996

Transition, Chaz Bono, 2011


Queer Blues: The Lesbian and Gay Guide to Overcoming Depression by K. Hardin, M. Hall (2001)


Free Your Mind: The Book for Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Youth Ellen Bass and Kate Kaufman, 1996


Golden Men: The Power of Gay Midlife, Harold Kooden, Ph.D. with Charles Flowers, 2000

Lives of Lesbian Elders: Looking Back, Looking Forward, D. Merilee Clunis (Editor), 2004

Gay Men's Sexuality

Men Loving Men, Mitch Walker, 1997

Joy of Gay Sex, 3rd Edition, Dr. Charles Silverstein and Felice Picano, 2004

The Multi-Orgasmic Man, Mantale Chia, 1987

Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men and Women, 3rd edition, Jack Morin, Ph.D., 1998

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give him Mind-blowing Pleasure,
Violet Blue, 2002 (aimed at heterosexual couples — still helpful for gay men)

Sex Tips for Gay Guys, Dan Anderson, 2001 (irreverent approach to sexuality for gay guys)

Tantra for Gay Men (book also known as Gay Tantra), Bruce Anderson, 2002

Lesbian Sexuality

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us, Felice Newman, 2004

Tantric Sex for Women, Christa Schulte, 2005

Becoming Orgasmic: A Sexual and Personal Growth Program for Women,
Julia Heiman and Joseph Lopiccolo, 1987

The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give her Exquisite Pleasure,
Violet Blue, 2002 (aimed at heterosexual couples — still helpful for lesbians)